My Thoughts · Quarter Life Corner

All These Things That I’ve Done

I’ve done some pretty shitty things. I’ve had more embarrassingly pathetic moments that left me crying in public than I care to count. I’ve been a terrible friend at times. Sometimes I haven’t been a friend at all. I’ve lied. I’ve acted self-righteous. I’ve been a total hypocrite. I’ve been selfish. Really fucking selfish. Self-centered.… Continue reading All These Things That I’ve Done

Quarter Life Corner · Relationships

Why Being Single Is Both Awesome & Awful

I think there is a 50-50 balance between the awesomeness & suckiness of being single. On the awesome side: Freedom to make your own decisions 100% by yourself and not be influenced by anyone else Not having to report your whereabouts or plans to anyone THE WHOLE BED TO YOURSELF Not having to shave your legs… Continue reading Why Being Single Is Both Awesome & Awful

Inspiration · Quarter Life Corner

Quote

“I can never be who I was. I can simply watch her with sympathy, understanding, and some measure of awe. There she goes, backpack on, headed for the subway or the airport. She did her best with her eyeliner. She learned a new word she wants to try out on you. She is ambling along. She is looking for it.”

Not That Kind of Girl by Lena Dunham
My Thoughts · Quarter Life Corner

Let’s Get Lost

Actually…let’s not. Because currently I am lost and it is, in a word, excruciating. And I’m not talking about being physically lost. I’m talking about soul-searching, don’t-know-what-to-do-with-my-life, feeling-like-I-don’t-have-a-purpose, washed up, worn out lost. So, figuratively, I guess. I guess it doesn’t help that I have a difficult time focusing. For instance, I just typed that… Continue reading Let’s Get Lost

Quarter Life Corner · Relationships

Call Me “Unconventional”

I had an on-and-off-again-but-mostly-on relationship with the boy I fell in love with in college. He was an emotionally unavailable asshole, which became recognized as my type for awhile. Luckily that has changed. He acted like he thought he was the shit but in reality he was incredibly anxious and self-conscious. He played guitar and… Continue reading Call Me “Unconventional”